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Abstract: women are trying to deal with the relationship between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law, not filial daughter, only son of sensible, this man is the two women together.
 
 
 
A married woman, the first problem encountered is that the relationship between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law.
 
Because of its “ can do a good daughter-in-law ” lack of self-confidence, but also because of the outside of the “ evil mother-in-law ” many malicious rendering, and even make a woman could enter the family, on the relationship from when the real face of, will have to deal with the pain love.
 
But in fact, the woman is to deal with this relationship, there is no filial daughter, only the son of ignorance, this man will be linked to the two women.
 
This relationship is a delicate triangle, which is the key to the son of a wise man is always a high EQ, let mother and wife are happy, but will not be the relationship between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law get scorched by the flames.
 
Sensible son
Take the lead in filial piety
 
To understand this: their parents must be their own good filial. Many men have such a thought: my parents raised me is not easy, so you should be filial to my parents.
 
In fact, this sentence is not what logic, a woman married into the family, she and your parents were not related, “ this is not one family, is ” because of your relationship, just walked into a house “ ”, your parents have worked so hard to bring you up. Why do we need to take care of and not your daughter-in-law, to take care of me?
 
Many of the contradictions between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law accused his wife not filial piety, ” “ in fact, your attitude determines the attitude of his wife. When the son of filial piety, and his wife will follow the natural.
 
Because she is because of love you, will call them a mom and dad. You take care of the mother, the wife will not neglect the natural law, like the mother and daughter heart.
 
Because she will feel the husband is a genuine honor your mother who will respect you more, will be more hard to honor your mother, family business.
 
Sensible son
Let his wife be a good man.
 
To resolve the conflict between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law of the important point is to increase the degree of intimacy between mother and daughter, and clever husband will take the opportunity to do good wife.
 
The holidays, what to buy your parents, at home, guide the wife admire her mother-in-law, praise her cooking skills, like her house well, like her family, what can make things with parents also let his wife to do.
 
Even if they do, also mention a wife's mind.
 
People are meat long, no one will be indifferent to the good intentions. Wife did so much, to do the mother-in-law will feel very bright, very sensible, natural will be happy.
 
No truth in things and his wife a happy, not to mention his wife like this, you can feel the efforts of your love will only increase.
 
Sensible son
Don't say who is right and who is wrong
 
Home is about love, not for the high or low, on the wrong place. In fact, no matter between the old, it is produced in the small day.
 
About cooking with hot and cold water, dry cleaning is not clean, how these days and children go out to eat &hellip not at home; … this one, what who is right and who is wrong?
 
One is to accompany you in the first half of the woman, a woman with you, who is willing to say who is wrong? So, once the law was produced in such a small friction, the son is too important position.
 
Stand in the position of her mother-in-law said to his wife, his wife wronged and helpless position; standing in the wife said her mother, mother chilling pain.
 
Therefore, the two are not stand, but for two women with each other, in front of his mother and wife said echoed the words in front of his wife and his mother is not easy to go along with. This small, small, not only solve the problem of the two women also eliminate dissatisfaction with each other.
 
Sensible son
Not in front of her mother-in-law and his wife quarrel
 
The position of a wife in a family is often given by her husband.
 
Two days, more than red wine, coffee, and will fight, but trifles, zainao do not quarrel in front of her mother.
 
Because this may imply that mother: because the daughter did not make you up and — — mother certainly will stand at your side; because the daughter-in-law in your heart what no weight, so you're not respect her.
 
If things go on like this, her mother-in-law will respect his wife, will deepen the conflict law.
 
And his wife silently endured injustice, no place to vent, only to let his wife feel that even the husband's protection in this family can not get, will be disappointed in the marriage, and even want to escape, will eventually let you two scars.
 Sensible son
To parents and parents alike
 
Maybe someone want to ask about this, and the relationship between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law? Certainly relevant.
 
When a man, the parents as their parents to filial piety, to love, to marry his woman will naturally put on the heart.
 
Women are emotional animal, you kind of attitude towards her parents, she will not be indifferent to her, every in the new year to buy a gift for your visit, she will not do said to her.
 
The Pro Pro, I love love. In fact, women understand that, to marry a man, you can never escape his family his parents.
 
Even their independent living, even do not need to help their children because of my parents, between her husband and his parents natural kinship, is always there. So the woman how to do, see the man's practice.
 
Sensible son will operate well
Own husband and wife relationship
 
There is a saying: good business relationship, the key lies in the management of the relationship between husband and wife. Husband and wife relationship is good, also won't let the family elders to worry about, will be less a lot of contradictions.
 
A woman really loves her husband, she will from the heart to love his parents.
 
When you know this woman, understand her pains, see her difficulties, naturally distressed her, love her, each of you will support each other, can reach an agreement on many issues.
 
Even if a conflict between mother and daughter, based on her love for you, is willing to take the initiative to show weakness, to resolve, even compromise.
 
The relationship between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law because she didn't want to cause you trouble, you destroy the harmonious atmosphere, but also because she and you are willing to face the problem, and your work life.
 
So, ah, a good husband and wife relationshipThen, to the law conflicts are not a problem.